Age difference in marriage as a widespread problem
The trend of finding a spouse on the Internet is an ever-growing one. It is a trend that is in no way aligned to the casual chatting the ‘net has become infamous for. Cyber chatting can be a dark playground open to all – and to all sorts of misadventures through the anonymous interaction that takes place there. Honesty, integrity and a host of other positive virtues are largely unwanted in this neck of the neighbourhood. Thus, the chat playground is not a serious option for those who are seeking a level of purposeful interaction that is totally honest, sincere and aimed establishing a good intentioned rapport between two people that will – all being well - lead to long-term commitment and a happy and fulfilling marital future. Covert cyber chatting and overt cyber searching are two opposing sides of a frequently tossed virtual coin. In any game of chance where one takes to gambling with luck as the random element, the degree of risk will always be high. But, take away the risk, the luck factor and the compulsion to flick some arbitrary gambling chip in the hopes of finding happiness, and you have a situation where sound management and inspired planning makes winning more of a sure thing than a maybe proposition riding on the back of a random toss.
Those whose preference leans towards a serious search for that ‘Special Someone’ will never make luck a deliberate part of the overall scheme of things. Games of chance are reserved for those who like to drown their sorrows in a toast to what fate haphazardly dishes out to those who remain players. Taking control of the game and making it work for you is where fate is replaced by fortune – the good kind - the kind that is offered by reputable marriage agencies who leave very little to chance. Success is made, not bestowed. It is always active, never passive. Success is what a reputable marriage agency like www.heavenlyhearts.net achieves for each and every client they personally and professionally assist.
To a large extent is seems that finding a husband or wife via an on-line dating/marriage agency has become almost commonplace in today’s world. Innumerable people, united by mutual yearnings, may find the one they were looking for their whole life via the Internet. Trend patterns tend to indicate that people turn to the virtual world when opportunities in the real world dwindle. The reasons behind what prompt someone to enter cyberspace to undertake their respective quest are as many and varied as the people themselves. Merely by virtue of the fact that a great many people are looking towards greener pastures for their love interest suggests an overall dissatisfaction with things as they are.
So, why are so many men and women looking for their life partner abroad? Why does such a tendency exist? Why such dissatisfaction? Why do women from Russia, Ukrainian women, Ukrainian and Russian girls, single women from Russia, Ukraine and other countries of the former U.S.S.R look for good husbands abroad? And why do men from Australia, men from the U.S.A., men from Canada and New Zealand, men from all over the world want to marry a Russian woman or a woman from Ukraine or Eastern Europe? Why do so many men form all over the world want a Russian or Ukrainian wife? What are the reasons behind this phenomenon?
These are quite complex questions to answer. For many Western men, this dissatisfaction is rooted in their home culture and the women of said culture. The way their home culture has developed does not seem to be in keeping with the expectations, wants and needs as they can be met by home culture women for a very large percentage of men. The kind of woman they these men want is not readily available at home. The solution is quite obvious and easy to take advantage of. All that is required is an unrestricted pathway to cyber space.
For women from Eastern Europe, the dilemma they face as far as finding a good man goes is just as problematic. Statistics tell us that:
1. Every 10th woman in Russia (also in Ukraine) aged 35 can’t find a partner for marriage due to the scarcity of men (reason: the tendency of men to go to excesses when it comes to drinking, smoking and womanising).
2. Foreigners usually do not have as many ‘bad habits’ as do Russian and Ukrainian men.
3. A low standard of living in comparison to countries in Europe, the U.S.A. and Australia.
4. Personal culture and education. Foreigners are usually well-educated people with a comparatively high level of culture.
Fundamentally, statistical evidence suggests that Russian and Ukrainian women together with women from Belarus, Moldova, Kazakhstan, Uzbekistan, also women from Armenia and Azerbaijan prefer men from abroad because they are generally more appealing on may levels. They can offer stability and support, which is crucial to create a firm family foundation.
With Western-based men having huge appeal for Eastern European ladies and vice versa, it is not difficult to see why so many foreign men look towards Russia, Ukraine and neighbouring regions, use the Internet in their respective quest and have such a favourable response from ladies in their target regions. Greener pastures are definitely worth considering and certainly worth pursuing if they yield a life partner who can provide on-going happiness and longevity in a marital relationship that has no stopping power. Professional and highly reliable Internet service providers such as HEAVENLY HEARTS can provide access to greener pastures. This is definitely why so many men and women turn to them for sound help and guidance.
Authors: M. McRae & A. Melnikov
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